Pornography is simply
the representation of sexual behavior
in books, pictures, statues, motion pictures, and other media that is intended
to cause sexual excitement. Pornography has a strong tendency to become
addictive to the user. It appeals to the viewer's libido (urge for sex) and
spontaneously arouses the desire for more in the viewer.
Sex is easily the most
discussed topic on the internet with several thousands of sites devoted to the
topic of pornography, this certainly leaves the viewer with several options to
explore if the desire to view porn arise. Tons of money is spent on pornography
every year which has unsurprisingly seen the industry grow to become a billion
dollar industry. Pornography is no doubt a popular topic as far as internet
searches are concerned. It has been established that pornography has the
tendency to be addictive, how then can know when he's beginning to get addicted
to porn? Here are the stages of Porn Addiction;
5 Stages of
Pornography Addiction
- Early exposure. Most guys who got addicted to porn started early. They see the stuff when they are very young, and it gets its foot in the door and they begin to get attached to it and then finds it difficult to let go of the habit.
- Addiction. Later comes addiction. This is the stage when you keep coming back to porn. It becomes a regular part of your life. You're hooked. You can't quit. You wanted to spend one hour viewing porn, but you are still watching it four hours later.
- Escalation. After a while, escalation begins. You start to look for more and more graphic porn. You start using porn that would have disgusted you when you started. Now it excites you.
- Desensitization. Eventually, you start to become numb. Even the most graphic, degrading porn doesn't excite you anymore. You become desperate to feel the same thrill again but can't find it. You begin to broaden your horizon and begin to look out for degrading forms of sexual depiction like sado and masochistic sex videos.
- Acting out sexually. At this point, many men and women make a dangerous jump and start acting out sexually. If masturbation had not begun in the earlier stages, at this stage it's almost inevitable that masturbation will set in. This is the stage where the user/viewer moves from the paper and plastic images of porn to the real world.
Pornography can be a
very lethal Toxin. Addiction to pornography is very stubborn and difficult to
break, infact its addiction is more difficult to break than drug addiction. The
main defenses against pornography is close family life, a good marriage and
good relations between parents and children, coupled with deliberate parental
monitoring of internet use as a measure to guard against addiction to it from
childhood. Victims of porn addiction should seek help from a psychologist or
therapist as the case may be. They can get a trusted individual to confide in
and get a diary to document their progress in breaking the menace.
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